Like her 7-year-old sister Alaya, 4-year-old Annika Bullock is a daddy's girl — except when she's under the weather. Then no one but Mom will do.
That's why Nicole Bullock celebrated her recent 39th birthday with her feverish younger daughter on her lap, watching a movie in the family's dining-room-turned-playroom.
"I'm the one that buys them too many stuffed animals and lets them break the rules, but when they're in distress, I'm not as good as she is," said dad Geoff Bullock of his wife.
The Brooklyn Park couple had to work hard to experience the everyday joys of parenting. In fact, they had to bet the house to build their family through adoption.
The Bullocks adopted Alaya from the foster care system when she turned 1. Two years later, they had taken custody of newborn Annika while preparing to adopt her. But complications in finalizing Annika's adoption arose, and with them, almost $30,000 in legal fees and other expenses.
"We'd already had her for three months. We'd named her. I told Nicole, 'I'll work five jobs if I have to. She's our daughter,' " Geoff said.
Although $30,000 may sound exorbitant, many families face those kinds of expenses when adopting. According to Adoptive Families magazine, which conducts an annual survey on the cost of finalizing adoptions, an average international adoption costs $42,000, while adoption of a domestic newborn averaged $37,000 in 2015-16.
To raise money to finance Annika's adoption, the Bullocks sold the Brooklyn Park home they had bought as a fixer-upper, cashing out their sweat equity to pay the adoption-related bills.