A frothy examination of Master Tesfatsion's enormous sneaker collection turned briefly serious when the sports journalist started talking about a childhood void of such extravagances.
The now former Strib Vikings beat writer and local radio personality was talking about his sophomore year of high school in Irving, Texas, when his sister Fifi, a D. C-based, makeup artist with 13,000 Instagram followers – bought her younger brother his very first pair of coveted stylist sneaks.
"We couldn't really afford to have these nice expensive shoes growing up so," Tesfatsion said softly. "We didn't have much growing up. Usually I would just have one pair of shoes that would last for three years. Kind of crummy, you'd just squish your feet into them and make them work. I was always a big sports fans, wanted Js [Jordan's], T Mc's [Tracy McGrady's]; [Allen] Iverson's. And so once my sister [got a] job, it was actually a month before my birthday, she got me some Air Jordan Retro 3s because that is when they dropped. I wore them hardly ever, once or twice every two weeks at school; got them rotated in. They don't even fit me anymore. I keep them just as a reminder, a sign of how far you've come."
Tesfatsion's parents came a long way to Texas. His parents are from Eritrea.
"My dad moved here in the '80s and then my mom came later. They left because there was a war. Eritrea was trying to gain its independence from Ethiopia, so it was a war-torn country. They fled and wanted to find better opportunity," he said. "She's been working at TGI Friday's all of her life and my dad is a sheet metal mechanic. He's been in and out of jobs but he recently got a new one. Financially, I don't know how they made it work with three kids, where the things you always wanted just weren't on the priorities list, including clothes, shoes. We went [to Eritrea] about 10 years ago. Even as different as it is, my parents … you should hear some stories about how they grew up. To the point where these shoes, they don't really care. They grew up without shoes, stepping on rocks and stuff. They barely got electricity in the houses they had been in before all their lives. It was tough. Helped me appreciate it. As parents they helped me realize they did the best they could, under the circumstances."
The Arizona State grad's circumstances are much improved, but memories from his childhood are never far from the fore: "Being honest, me just being able to go out and buy groceries when I want to, it's crazy because you always had to wait until they had paychecks and you made it work, with whatever we had."
Now Tesfatsion has a great deal more, especially sneakers-wise, although he said he is starting to buy more dress shoes that actually go with how he dresses up on NFL game days. The fashion statement he has in mind goes way beyond shoes and sports, for my colleague who recently took a job the NFL's D.C. area team. He tried to play down his journalistic ambitions but it was obvious to me that that personality wasn't long for this market — something about which I asked him when we shot video for this Q&A at the south Minneapolis pad he shared with two other bachelors.
Q: What's it like to have white people always address you as Master?