The video of Philando Castile in his final moments, blood-soaked and gasping for breath with a St. Anthony police officer's gun trained on him, has been viewed more than 5 million times on Facebook and sparked grief, outrage and unrest across the country.
His mother hasn't seen it.
"I want to remember him when I gave him a kiss and he walked out the door," Valerie Castile said in an interview Tuesday. "I didn't want to see him in agony and bleeding like that."
Castile's mother and sister opened up about their shock and grief since the 32-year-old school food services supervisor's violent death following a traffic stop in Falcon Heights last Wednesday.
As more information emerges, including police audio in which an officer said Castile looked like a robbery suspect "because of the wide-set nose," she has no doubt that her son was racially profiled.
She's not surprised that he was stopped, but she can't understand why he died. When he was a teen, she had "the talk" with him — about what to do if he's ever pulled over or stopped by a police officer.
"I want this locked in your head," she said she told him. "I told him to comply. That's the key word. And I thought my child was safe. Whenever you get stopped by police, you do everything they ask you to do. Don't give 'em no lip, don't talk back. Just say 'Yes, sir. No, sir.' "
Castile was shot and killed minutes after officers Jeronimo Yanez and Joseph Kauser pulled him over as a possible suspect in a recent robbery. In a video streamed on Facebook immediately after the shooting, his girlfriend, Diamond Reynolds, said Castile notified the officer that he was armed and had a permit to carry a gun.