SAN JOSE, CALIF. – Kevin Constantine is supposed to be an intimidating, hard-nosed coach, but says, "I'm a crier."
Eight years ago while coaching the Wild's American Hockey League affiliate in Houston, Constantine found himself bawling at a pre-playoff team dinner.
Joel Ward, in his third year as a Wild farmhand, was Houston's captain. Constantine asked Aeros players to bring a "tchotchke" — a meaningful knickknack — to dinner in order to give a 30-second to five-minute speech about what the small item represents and how it will help them contribute in the playoffs.
After dinner, Ward pulled a dreamcatcher out of a knapsack. He said it reminded him of his father, Randall, who used to call him "Chief."
"Wherever they went, he'd always introduce him as Chief: 'Hey this is Chief. Do you know my son Chief?'" Constantine, now coaching Everett in the Western Hockey League, recalled Ward saying.
"[The dreamcatcher] goes above the bed … to get all the bad dreams out and allow the good dreams."
At 14 years old, Ward was playing a hockey game when he saw a commotion in the stands. His father collapsed from a stroke. A few days later, his role model was gone.
At that dinner, according to Constantine, Ward said, "My contribution for the playoffs is that I can fulfill what my father's vision for me was. I want to do everything I can as captain to be a leader, to help you guys, to help us as a group, to help our team."