Mom was a former newspaper columnist, published poet and certified clown — and she had Alzheimer's. She said the craziest things and instructed her daughter to write them down. Mom, forever a lover of language, thought her life should be turned into a play.
The daughter — highly regarded singer/songwriter Jonatha Brooke — agreed.
"Because she was such a character, she was complicit in creating theater around our daily travails," said Brooke. "She would often make up songs or stories and she would ask me if I was getting it down. She thought it was great theater and it was funny. She wanted to make sure I didn't miss anything."
Whatever it was, it has become "My Mother Has Four Noses," a one-woman musical that Brooke will perform this week at the Playwrights' Center in Minneapolis. It tells the story of a daughter and mother trying to cope during the final stages of Alzheimer's.
Encouraged by her husband, Minneapolis-bred talent manager Patrick Rains, Brooke brought her mother from Boston to live in the couple's New York City apartment from August 2010 until her death in January 2012, at age 80.
"What are you gonna do? I come from a big family," said Rains, one of seven kids who grew up in south Minneapolis, in a separate phone interview. "In big families, that's what you do. Her mom had a crush on me. Her mom was a flirt and loved my deep voice. We had great times together."
Nancy Nelson was a Christian Science Monitor columnist (under the name Darren Stone) and a trained clown (known as Stoney) who would participate in neighborhood parades and the like.
"What was so compelling about being with her these last two years was seeing her basic qualities just amplified," said Brooke, 49. "A lot of the complicated personality stuff just fell away and what was left was this core human being who was funny and generous and kind and loving and playful and childlike. It was a great discovery to be left with those elements."