While eating bread may be the great cross-cultural common denominator, the art of bread making divides those who can from those who cannot. At a lefse-making party, my friend Paurvi Bhatt noticed that lefse is similar to Indian roti, the unleavened bread that accompanies everyday meals of stews and curries.
We lovers of flatbreads were intrigued, and soon we gathered in her kitchen to learn the art of roti from her mom, Rekha Bhatt, and her aunt, Ila Patel. Their recipe, like so many of our food traditions, was not passed down to them in writing but as a hands-on experience.
Women like Bhatt and Patel have been making roti their entire lives, and it shows in the ease of their movements as they knead, roll and char the flatbread.
Patel pulled a soup spoon from the kitchen drawer and used it to measure salt that she added to a few cups of whole wheat flour. She added nothing more than a slow stream of water and a bit of oil to the flour, all the while kneading with one hand. Once the dough was to her liking, she used both hands to gently but steadily knead the craggy mix. Her hands did not stop moving until the dough was supple and smooth.
Patel dipped her hand into the dough and pulled out a small piece, then quickly rolled the dough into a walnut-sized ball. She placed the ball on a round marble pastry slab and used a thin tapered rolling pin to work it into a 5-inch round.
I mimicked her movements, and proudly displayed my first attempt, a roti shaped more like the state of Texas than a circle. Patel smiled and took the bread from me, deftly reshaping it and teasing me, "OK for you, but I'll make a round one."
She placed the flatbread over the flames of the stovetop burner for a few seconds, using her fingers and a small tong to rotate each piece and then flip it after she achieved just the right amount of char. The finished flatbreads were stacked on a plate, with melted ghee dribbled over each piece.
We tore at the warm, buttery pieces, spread with a bit of Bhatt's faux tamarind chutney, and listened to their stories of immigration.