I would first point to our ability to keep our core group together. With that group, what you find is that thirst to win — that competitive fire. I think there's been incredible focus on a day-to-day basis. Very rarely do we look up and look out once we start (a season). It helps you stay locked into the moment. Those are things that athletes and coaches say are keys to success, and people say, "No, really, what is it?" It's not sexy enough and doesn't sound that exciting. But it really is what makes this team go. I think the other part of it is being nimble — whether that means with our style of play or roster moves — and being self-aware. What are we good at? Let's try to stay in our lane and remain good at those things. But the things we aren't good at, let's work really hard to improve so we can limit the number of weaknesses.
In their hearts there is a very unselfish person at the core. Forget basketball — just their daily walk. I think it's fun to celebrate your differences. I need a serious, dry Lindsay Whalen as much as I need a silly — even at serious times — Seimone Augustus. I need Sylvia Fowles at the end of the day just wanting to hug. I need Maya Moore's constant drive for greatness to keep pushing me, too. Rebekkah Brunson's professionalism. It's just a fun blend to be around, and you can draw something from each of them to make yourself better.
Before, having a collaboration with Roger (Griffith), the longtime general manager, it was a shared responsibility. Now that's on me. You worry a lot more. I contacted Roger quite a bit throughout the offseason. There's no substitute for experience. He was a tremendous resource. But when you reach a decision that you want to do a trade or want a free agent, you just don't do those things lightly. I probably slept better as just a head coach in the offseason. Now I have two seasons where I don't sleep well. There's a different responsibility when it's your name going on the contracts.
Sometimes in life you have moments, I think they refer to them as "a-ha" moments. I had one in 2009 when my team folded in Detroit and I had a choice to keep doing what I was doing and go be an assistant somewhere else. I said, nope, I want to be a head coach. I made my own break, so to speak. And then I had that kind of moment in the offseason where I looked around and said, "Enough is enough. I'm sick of this. This isn't OK." And what's wrong with saying things aren't OK? I think the thing I want women to feel is more bold and more brave. They should be able to walk in and say, "I'm qualified for this job, and I should be the person who should get this job." And that's not to say you should just get the job because you said it. But women should not to be afraid to ask for what they want. Women are scared into not communicating in fear of losing their job. And that's just not right. To get real change, you need bold actions. Without it, we're going to be looking at the same thing 50 years from now. I'm excited for younger people because things are happening a lot faster now, and if people don't get with it, there are real consequences for their decisions. The time is now. You get what you accept. And if we accept these inequities, we're going to keep getting them.
(Laughs) I hope not. I mean, power is a word that I'm really uncomfortable with. I have enjoyed the appreciation that people have grown to have over our team. I have enjoyed brother teams in the city. That includes the Twins, Vikings, the Wild. I've shared a lot of time with those guys and (Gophers football coach) P.J. Fleck. These are guys that are excited for you and getting behind you. I think it's cool that it's a mutual respect. It's not a, "you do pretty good for a girl." That's the way it should be, and I wish it was this way more in the mainstream, that we're peers and equals. I've enjoyed that about being the head coach and general manager of a very successful team.
That's all I heard is how much it was going to change me, and I think it has to change you a little bit. The players see you in a different way, and naturally they would see you as a little softer. I don't know if my coaching philosophy or style have changed. I think the challenge from a time perspective is the big one. I remember the first year and probably most of the second year of his life, the schedule he was on was absolutely brutal for me as a coach. We weren't very good at the nighttime part. We'd have to rock him until 11 or 11:30. There was an unhealthy stretch there of burning the candle at both ends, staying up late, getting up early.