Earlier this month, three faces — two women and a man — stared back at me from the front page of the Washington Post over the intriguing headline "Unwell and unashamed." Each had gone public about a condition that for many remains a tightly held secret within the family or among close friends. They were part of a new "groundswell to lift the stigma connected with mental illness."
Since the beginning of the year, the Post said millions of people have taken to social media, defiantly outing themselves as mentally ill, many using specific hashtags such as #sicknotweak. It's hard to quantify, but some, including a company that analyzes mental health data, say the flood of disclosures had risen to the level of a movement.
This new openness also coincides with increasing police encounters with the mentally ill around the country. A recent Star Tribune survey of nine of Minnesota's largest law enforcement agencies reported that over the past six years police are responding to an average 34 percent more mental health calls.
Perhaps it was only a matter of time before mental illness, which affects some 43 million people in a year — more than 18 percent of all Americans — would slowly come out of the shadows, working its way into the culture in plot lines in TV shows, in film and on stage. It reminds some of the early days of the gay-rights movement that began chipping away at the stigma. In Minnesota, the "Want to Talk About It" public service announcement campaign has been aimed at the mental health stigma.
Last November, in a powerful commentary in the New York Times, Washington political scientist Norman Ornstein, a product of St. Louis Park and the University of Minnesota, reminded us of the flip side of mental illness: those who still suffer silently and either refuse or are unable to acknowledge their illness. Ornstein recounted the death last year of his 34-year-old son, Matthew, from accidental carbon monoxide poisoning. He had fallen asleep in a tent with a propane lantern. That was the immediate cause, but as Ornstein wrote, "his death was shaped by a lack of judgment driven by a 10-year struggle with mental illness."
Matthew Ornstein had been a champion high school debater, studied at Princeton, headed for Hollywood and quickly created a TV show with his debate partners called "Master Debaters." But at 24, he suffered a psychotic break that his father says "brought his vibrant life to a grinding halt." The illness was never officially diagnosed, but was thought to be bipolar disorder made worse by a companion illness, anosognosia — the inability to recognize you are ill. Because Matt didn't believe there was anything wrong with him, he refused all medicine. And since he was over 18, neither his parents nor mental health professionals had the authority to force him to get any treatment.
Bad enough that Norman Ornstein and his wife, Judith Harris, faced the nightmare that a serious mental illness had overwhelmed and redefined their older son at the start of a promising career. But now they faced a second torment: a legal barrier to get Matt the help he so desperately needed. The Ornstein family confronted the clash of civil liberties vs. the imperative to help a suffering adult child. "It's a delicate balance and perfectly understandable that for a large share of the mentally ill, they want to be autonomous," Ornstein says. "But it's taken to an extreme where it simply bypasses the collection of people like my son who were incapable of making their own decisions, either because they're so deeply caught up in their own delusions or because they have an anosognosia and don't recognize they have an illness."
Because the standards for involuntary treatment of an adult in most states require the individual to literally be an imminent danger to himself or others, there are few options available to the loved ones of the adult mentally ill who refuse treatment. "We were in a situation where my wife said at times, 'My only hope is if Matthew gets arrested, the judge can give him the offer of getting treated or going to jail,' " Ornstein says.