Prosecutors in southern Minnesota aren't saying that Long Vang provided a weapon to Jessica Haban or gave her instructions on how to kill herself. And they aren't saying Vang supplied Haban, the mother of his two children, with an illicit drug that led to her death.
But prosecutors are accusing Vang of inflicting 10 years of relentless physical and emotional abuse on Haban during their relationship until she lost her will to live and died by suicide.
Now Vang, 34, of Stewartville, is charged in Olmsted County District Court with third-degree murder, second-degree manslaughter and stalking in connection with Haban's Dec. 16 suicide. A message was left with Vang's attorney Wednesday seeking a response to the charges.
"I believe Mr. Vang's conduct directly contributed to the death of his partner," County Attorney Mark Ostrem said in a statement announcing Friday's charges. "Mr. Vang was clearly aware of the precarious state of his partner's emotions following her hospitalization, and he continued the relentless contacts until her death."
Charging an abuser with murder for another person's suicide is a rarity in Minnesota if not unprecedented, according to Ostrem and others.
Ostrem said Wednesday that he has come upon no other prosecution under these circumstances ever in Minnesota, and he knows that means extra pressure on his office as it pursues its case against Vang.
"We have put a lot more scrutiny into charging this than in a typical case," he said. "We know there are going to be some challenges and some questions. We plan to have our ducks in a row."
Haban's family has found comfort in the charges. It "means there is finally going to be some justice for Jessica," said her mother, Rita Prinzing. "While we know that it won't bring her back, he will be held accountable."