The 11-and 12-year-olds on a Pee Wee hockey team were holding a practice at the Rockville Ice Arena in Maryland. Gray Erwin was a defenseman and Brady Boudreau was in the nets.
The gathering of hockey moms included Margaret Ann Erwin and Crystal Boudreau. They started talking and found out they had something in common: husbands who were gone a lot.
Jay Erwin was a Marine pilot. He had two deployments to Afghanistan and another to the Mideast — two for one year and another for 8 ½ months.
Bruce Boudreau was the coach of the Washington Capitals. There are a lot of road trips for an NHL coach, starting with exhibitions in September and in Bruce's case, including the playoffs in 89 percent of his seasons.
Margaret Ann had another son, Andrew, who was two years younger than Gray and also a hockey player. That gave her double duty driving to hockey rinks while also trying to beat the traffic of the Washington, D.C., suburbs.
Hockey moms have a tendency to rely on one another. Margaret Ann and Crystal became good friends, and so did their families.
"Bruce has been a strong supporter of the military,'' Margaret Ann said. "Knowing Jay was in Afghanistan … he couldn't have been nicer to the boys and our family.
"Bruce is much more than a hockey coach. As busy as he is, he finds time to get involved in the community. I hope Minnesotans appreciate what they are going to have here as the Wild coach.
"He has winning teams as a coach, but he's also a great guy. He's … that's all, just a great guy.''