MANKATO – Last spring, Philip Nelson and Isaac Kolstad were young men with plans and careers, their futures wide open and promising. Nelson was a college quarterback headed to Rutgers after two years with the Gophers; Kolstad was gainfully employed in his hometown and expecting a second daughter with his wife of one year, Molly.
In seconds last May, all of it was upended when they fought on a downtown Mankato street.
They met again Monday, this time in a tense and crowded Blue Earth County courtroom, to see Nelson sentenced to 100 hours of community service for his role in the fight. Fifteen of those hours must be spent speaking to youth groups about how life can change in an instant.
Nelson had faced a potential 90-day jail term after he plead guilty to fifth-degree misdemeanor assault for kicking Kolstad in the head as he lay unconscious on the street. Judge Bradley C. Walker gave Nelson two days of jail, with credit for the two days he already served.
Nelson stood when the hearing adjourned and hugged his parents while Kolstad's family mostly sat, disappointed that the man they blame for Kolstad's near-fatal injuries would go free.
Isaac Kolstad spoke haltingly in the packed courtroom, evidence of his brain injury.
"I can't hold my own children without someone else watching me," said Kolstad, a former football player for Minnesota State University, Mankato. "My doctors are afraid I will have another seizure and drop them. I can't drive. I can't work. I can't cook my family dinner."
Even though a prosecution expert concluded that the kick did not lead to the severe brain injury, Kolstad said, "Philip Nelson made decisions that night that left me with permanent brain damage."