Since an April 4 letter writer compares what is being done or not done with regard to guns and distracted driving, why not include alcohol? It kills more people than guns every year and causes more health issues, more domestic crimes, more broken homes, more abuse. Yet I don't see people calling for background checks when buying alcohol or calling to limit buying alcohol for others of legal age. You may remember a person in the news who had 28 DWIs yet was still able to purchase alcohol. Why? Because people who drink don't want to face the issue.
I've been a gun owner my entire adult life, yet I don't personally know one person who was killed by a gun or by a gun used illegally. I cannot say the same about alcohol. Can you?
Meanwhile, a friend of mine and his wife were hit by a distracted driver. They both almost died and will have pain the rest of their lives. He lost a leg. The person who hit them had a previous distracted-driving offense, and it appears she will get off with a slap on the wrist.
When current gun laws cannot even be enforced because of the lack of sharing between government and health institutions so that background checks actually mean something, I question what the effect of new laws will be on law-abiding people. Not being able to lend a gun to a friend to go hunting or to a high school student to participate in the trapshooting leagues is one of the results of the legislation trying to be forced through now.
I believe in having background checks for gun purchases at guns show, etc. But if I decide to pass on a gun to a family member or a friend who I know is law-abiding, I don't see the need.
Tim Hainlin, Maple Plain
NORDIC COMPARISONS
About finding friendliness and happiness — that's up to you, innit?
I lived in Norway for two years — as a student and then as a mother with my Norwegian-born husband and two school-age children. ("Sadly, Norwegians don't seem as happy as surveys suggest," April 4, a counterpoint to the April 2 commentaries "What we saw in Norway: A model for Minnesota" and "The U.S. can't become Nordic just by declaring policies.") It is complicated to live in another country and culture and fit in. I am blond and blue-eyed with grandparents from Scandinavia. I speak Norwegian, and it was still extremely challenging for me to meet new people and make new friends.
I would also walk down the street and try to make eye contact and greet people (which just made them uncomfortable) until I figured out that the way to break through is to become involved. Join a neighborhood club or parents' group, or take a class so you have a common task or purpose. I found that working on something together led to friendships and inclusion in socializing activities.
The conclusion stated in the April 4 counterpoint that Norwegians are racist because they point out rules to be followed and aren't friendly is not supported by my personal experience while living in Norway.