Two May 20 articles, two outcomes: First, Peter M. Leschak ("Check your loyalty") argues that the individual is greater than the group, that the pack cannot exist without the wolf, relating the abstract of the group to the concrete allegiance of the individual. Second, Gail Rosenblum ("Rebuilding from grief, one bluebird house at a time") tells a touching story of a widower who finds purpose building bluebird houses and in the process is lifted up out of his grief by a community of friends and strangers, each with a story of loss they believe they bear alone, until they reach out and are touched by the kindness of strangers.
Of the two stories, I prefer the feel-good, "footprint in the sand" scenario that Rosenblum describes to the cynical, everyone-for-themselves motif Leschak presents. Life is a takeaway process. We need a community to be a witness and remind us that our life has meaning. I don't care if the Democratic Party needs me more than I need it, or whether being a union steward has helped or hurt my career. All I know is that I would prefer to live a life with these organizations in it than without.
I prefer not to look at life through prison bars on my heart. If that is a confidence game, then the fix is already in.
Benjamin Cherryhomes, Hastings
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Leschak's commentary fascinates the senses when he toggles between loyalties given to organizations vs. the individual. He describes the behavior of the wolf pack as the ideal organization because each wolf acts independently when contributing to a kill. This is in contrast to human organizations that operate only as a brand or a letterhead.
Having a strong allegiance to a group could be an outgrowth of brainwashing and coercion from political establishments; lord knows, they have their ways. A strong profit motive from corporations holds power over their employees. Who has more power, the individual or the organization? It depends.
Not falling into line can be seen as a threat for some groups or as refreshing for others. For example, people of color may find it blasphemous when some in their group vote Republican, or Democrats find it disingenuous when evangelicals support a philanderer for president. The larger issue, of course, is what do we think of people who belong to these groups? Do we believe they follow in lockstep with the brand or the canon of bylaws for an organization, or are they independent thinkers? Do we stereotype those who belong to a certain affiliation, or do we see them as individuals? Pigeonholing all who belong to a specific group is as thoughtless as having blind loyalty to a political party.
Our loyalties and our allegiance belong to ourselves within that specific group, as has always been the case. So, with all due respect, don't judge me based on my group or affiliations. In most cases you'd be wrong!