As a fan of pickleball, I was pleased to learn that new outdoor pickleball-specific courts are planned to accommodate increasing demand ("Flurry of new courts feeds pickleball frenzy," front page, May 28). However, the article shortchanges the reader when addressing the sport. It states that it is played with a Wiffle ball (not so; it is a ball designed for the sport, with different versions for indoors and out); is inaccurate regarding how it got started and got its name; and omits the main reason for its great popularity. To enlighten present and future pickleball players, I refer them to a commentary of mine that appeared in the Star Tribune in 2014 when the sport was beginning to explode nationwide ("Pickleball continues to gain fans as a year-round sport for all ages in the south metro area"). Read it at tinyurl.com/pickleball-sport.
Jerome Charles Goodrich, Prior Lake
DIVERSITY
What children can learn from curiosity and interaction
My oldest daughter, Allison, has the darker complexion of her father. They both have just enough melanin to tan instead of burn in the summer. At the end of her first kindergarten party, the students stood in line. Behind my daughter was her locker mate, an African-American girl wearing a hijab. She reached out and ran her fingers down one of Allison's long, blonde braids. Being touched made her uncomfortable. She shrugged her shoulders a little and pulled her head away.
I smiled to myself. I had seen a similar exchange before. One of my co-workers stopped relaxing her hair. It was starting to get the curl back when a white co-worker insisted on reaching out to feel it. She had shrugged her shoulders in a similar way.
A few weeks later at a school event, Allison was in line behind a girl possibly a grade or two older than her. This girl's black, tight curls were pulled up into several braids around her head. Allison reached out and felt her hair. The girl shrugged her shoulders uncomfortably. "No, no, honey. That's not your hair," I said.
Some have quietly expressed concern about the racial diversity of our neighborhood school. I hope that our girls' experience in this school will help us to teach them that such comments are hurtful and ignorant. I want her to learn these lessons in the innocent curiosity of youth, so that racial difference becomes as comfortable to her as two plus two is four.
Tiffany Bierbaum, Eden Prairie
THE CULTURE
What once was, what is now — and it's amazing it's not worse
Past: Boys roamed free; mothers were home for noon lunch; children walked or biked to school, were given chores by parents and were punished for disrespect; there were family restaurants and men-only bars; Sunday school was common; you rarely heard God's name in vain. You worked out your destiny (salvation) in fear and trembling.
Present: The home and the well-being of our children are no longer our national priority. We are moving toward a survival mode. Did 9/11 cause that? Each individual seeks to meet their needs as best he or she can under the circumstances in which he or she finds himself or herself.
Result: White boys act out with guns on school property. Black boys get "the talk," fear police, may get killed. Teen girls commit suicide.