I was reading about the continued efforts of James Shaw Jr. to help the victims of the Waffle House shooting in Nashville. He was also officially commended by the state of Kentucky and others for his heroism, truthfulness and compassion. I know from experience that Shaw is more likely to emotionally survive his ordeal because of his candor and his continued efforts. Please don't let someone like James Shaw Jr. fade so quickly from our memories. He is a very special person.
Tim J. Dolan, Edina
The writer, now retired, was Minneapolis police chief from 2006 to 2012.
SPANKING LAWSUIT
Child protection: Too aggressive or not aggressive enough?
It isn't surprising that some parents are now suing the state, saying that child-protection agencies have been too aggressive in intervening in family discipline (front page, April 25). We could debate whether spanking is really an effective (and loving?) discipline method, and there is plenty of research out there that would suggest it isn't. Deciding where the line is for a child-protection worker to intervene — and especially to remove a child, is not as straightforward as some would wish, and there are usually parents who feel their rights were violated.
So should child protection err on the side of parents' rights or child safety? I'd opt for child safety every time. I've worked in children's mental health and in health care for more than 30 years, and I've never seen child protection put a child in foster care for almost two years, as was described in the article on Wednesday, without significant safety concerns and judicial oversight. And I'd rather see that action taken when needed instead of seeing the stories in the paper of children who've been badly injured or killed when intervention didn't occur.
The issue of racial disparity and access to "family assessment" seems a separate issue from child-protection overreach and deserves attention. However, withholding child-protection services to children because some parents feel their rights are somehow more important is only increasing the risk to children who are unable to advocate on their own behalf.
Barb Klatt, St. Paul
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How could hitting a child in response to something we don't like not be physical violence? And then we expect the child to go to school and not hit?
And what are the implications for how a child's behavior is controlled at school, for the teacher of 22 and more children, if the way we control a child's behavior at home is spanking, which is hitting?