When the 2017 World Happiness Report proclaimed that Norway had inched out Denmark as leader of the global happiness rankings, I had to investigate. The country where I studied 13 years ago is stunningly beautiful, but it never struck me as a glowingly joyous place, with its dark winters and reserved citizens. What secrets of a happy life could I learn from this northern country of just 5 million people?
Only a return trip could answer that question. My journey included a pit stop in Stockholm, a three-day passage through the capital city of Oslo, a couple of days in the fjords and fjells (mountains) and a three-day rest in Bergen, where my great-grandfather trained as a blacksmith. As a kind of "happiness" insurance, I was in Norway during the national festival known as Syttende Mai, literally, the 17th of May, the anniversary of the signing of Norway's constitution. The holiday brings out locals in handmade traditional clothing, marching bands, children's parades and lots of pølser (hot dogs) and ice cream. Still, my first conversations proved disheartening.
"What does 'happiness' even mean?" Ewa Victoria Westman, a Stockholm tour guide, asked with perhaps a bit of envy. "I don't see the Norwegians as much happier than us Swedes."
In Norway, Inger Brøgger Bull, a librarian in Oslo, didn't understand this new rating: "Happiness? We have bad weather, the highest prices of beer, things are so expensive!"
Though I lived in Norway for one year and studied the language for almost three, I realize now that I had never even learned the Norwegian word for "happy." Was this because it's bad form for Norwegians to brag about their good fortune? Gledelig is more "gladly" than "happy." Too much has been made out of the Danish word hygge, which actually comes from Norwegian, and means to get cozy and snug. Trivelig, or thriving, is perhaps the best translation. Knut Bull, a curator at Norway's National Museum, suggested "Lykkelig, which defines those precious moments when everything comes together."
Many Norwegians consider Bergen a particularly cheery city, so I began my tour here with Syttende Mai, Constitution Day. "The people in Bergen are called 'The Italians of Norway' because they are direct, have great parties, and gesture with their hands," my guide Kay said.
In a city known for rain, the sun beamed down and warmed festivalgoers dressed in traditional bunader (or at least suit and ties), who vigorously waved flags, exclaiming, "Gratulerer med dagen!" (congratulations on the day). I'd never seen such an outpouring of joy, fun and kindness. I expected garbage everywhere, but after more than 100,000 people left the streets, I saw just two littered beer cans. The only person who didn't seem happy was Norway's glum king, who appeared on television on his balcony in Oslo and wouldn't even crack a smile or sing the national anthem.
Lesson 1: Let kids roam free
The 17th of May celebration began with a 2½-hour barnetoget, or children's parade. Kari Smith, a professor of education from Bergen, said making happy citizens starts with kids becoming "complete human beings" through the Norwegian education system that integrates them into the culture. "Children are happy in school," she stressed, and made a jab at the much-touted educational system in Finland: "Finnish children are among the lowest in terms of happiness."