Exactly 11 months ago, in July 2016, only weeks after Jeronimo Yanez and Philando Castile met in their tragic encounter in suburban St. Paul, then-President Barack Obama spoke to a shaken and agitated nation in the wake of another shattering nightmare — the shootings of six police officers in Baton Rouge, La.
In one of his finest hours, Obama advised Americans, who had only recently been through so much shock and heartache — Orlando, Dallas and so much more — to find it within themselves to "temper our words, and open our hearts" toward one another.
In the wake of the not-guilty verdict in the Yanez trial, coming as it did Friday at the end of yet another shocking, disheartening week of violence and tension in America, Obama's sentiment seems once again to be what we need to hear.
Let us be kind and cautious toward one another and remember the power of words to aid healing or to open new wounds.
They were both young men of promise, Castile and Yanez, exemplars of a new, young, diverse American generation. The 28-year-old Mexican-American cop; the well-liked 32-year-old African-American school food service supervisor. Exactly why their interaction ended so swiftly in such horror may never be fully understood.
The jury of seven men and five women needed five days of deliberation to agree that while it seems entirely clear Yanez made a catastrophic mistake when he shot and killed Castile, he did not commit a crime. Whatever else can and will be said of the jurors' decision, it should be acknowledged that they performed a hard duty, and evidently with the diligence and seriousness it deserved.
It's the community's turn now to shoulder a hard duty. Some will have to work to come to an acceptance and a measure of peaceful respect for that decision. Leaders among those who will struggle to do so need to temper their words to calm the angriest in their midst.
Others among us will need to open their hearts to find patience and understanding for just how agonizingly hard it will be for some neighbors to make peace with this outcome.