Are you feeling restrained by the past and fearful of the future? Do you doubt your resilience?
If so, don't despair.
Here's a "what if" writing exercise based on futurist and game designer Jane McGonigal's "XYZ format" that will help you change the world, or at least your little corner of it. It involves "counterfactual thinking."
When you think counterfactually, as McGonigal explains in her July 2 Aspen Ideas Festival lecture, you unlock your brain to "predict" a past that never was and to "remember" a future that hasn't happened.
The idea is to re-imagine your past by asking "what if" questions. According to McGonigal, doing this exercise activates your imagination, intuition and logic. It also increases your sense of control, which makes you feel more confident about shaping the future and understanding your place in it. It may even make you less afraid of it.
Other benefits to this "incredibly practical skill" include a decrease in depression, a sense of liberation from the past, a "burst of creativity" and a heightened belief in the possibility of transformational change.
Sound too good to be true? Let's give it a try with a writing exercise, based on McGonigal's "triangle of what if."
Taking X as an activity or event in your life, Y as a person and Z as a place, re-imagine your past counterfactually. For example, you might think of a conflict at home or at work. Maybe a team member spoke against your proposal on a conference call last week in a way that felt like a personal attack.