The official warned Andre Patterson. Don't take it personally, she said. The baby is afraid of men.
In the late '90s a series of miscarriages had persuaded Patterson and his wife to adopt. Patterson, then as now the Vikings' defensive line coach, signed with a local agency.
"They were having trouble placing children of color," Patterson said. "We always felt we had a lot to give as a couple, so we went through process and were told it might take a couple of years. We got a call two weeks later."
The Pattersons went to meet the baby girl. Patterson received the saddest of warnings, then walked into the room. "She stuck her arms out at me," Patterson said. "From that day she's been the love of my life."
Patterson told the story as he stood on the sideline at TCO Performance Center, the Vikings' lavish new training complex. He has made 18 stops in his coaching career. He worked for Denny Green in 1998 and '99, and returned to the Vikings to work for longtime ally Mike Zimmer in 2014.
Finding his daughter is the primary reason he wants to remain in Minnesota "forever." He also has professional reasons for feeling fondness for the Twin Cities.
In his first stint, he coached two Hall of Famers. In his second, he coaches a startling number of superior athletes.
"It's hard to compare when you had two Hall of Famers," he said. "It's hard to compete with that. John Randle and Chris Doleman were two of the best ever to play the game, and then you throw Jerry Ball into that mix, that was a phenomenal group.