It's clear the relationship isn't worth salvaging. A breakup is imminent, and it's time to divvy up assets. But a question lingers: Who gets the pets?
While pets have historically been treated as property in the eyes of the law, that's starting to change.
Earlier this year, a new law went into effect in Alaska requiring courts to take an animal's well-being into consideration in the event of a divorce. It also allows judges to assign joint custody of pets. A Rhode Island lawmaker introduced a similar bill in late February.
It's rare for couples who adopt a pet together to plan for their furry friend's future if the relationship goes south. Tricia Goostree, founder and managing partner of the law firm Goostree Law Group, said she has never had a couple raise it as part of prenup negotiations.
"In our practice, typically one party retains the pet," Goostree said. "In certain circumstances, people establish a schedule to visit with their pets or even provide for how the pet will be cared for financially following a divorce."
But what if you never make it to the altar? When her then-boyfriend bought her a Yorkie-poodle mix about 1½ years ago, Kristen Gargiulo remembers thinking at the time that it was a bit too much too soon.
"I thought it was a little premature, but it's hard to tell a serious boyfriend that getting a dog is premature," the Arlington, Va., resident said. "A couple months later, he moved in, so obviously we were serious enough for him to move in, and then a couple months after him moving in, we got engaged."
But Gargiulo and her fiancé wound up breaking up in mid-2016, and she's been taking care of the dog, Kodi, since. "I don't think I can ever see him [her ex] ever again, so sharing the dog would be too hard for me," she said.