At age 14, I spent the summer in a community theater production of "South Pacific." From that moment on I spent every waking moment outside of school in theater or traveling the state for speech competitions.
Today, I use those skills I learned in confidence, teamwork and public speaking every day when I show up for work.
My after-school experiences set me up for success. But not all young people have opportunities like this.
Income plays a big role in it. Higher-income families spend nearly $9,000 annually while lower-income families spend about $1,300 each year on after-school and summer learning opportunities.
Whether it's community theater, robotics leagues, music lessons or coding camps, these opportunities matter. They play a critical role in developing young adults who are ready and able to contribute to their future employers' successes.
What employers want, what kids need
Every year Forbes reports on the skills employers most desire in their new hires. Not surprisingly, topping the 2015 list were degrees in business, engineering and computer/information sciences.
But what was surprising was the top three skills employers seek regardless of majors or degrees: ability to work in a team structure; ability to make decisions and solve problems (tie); and ability to communicate verbally with people inside and outside an organization.
Technical skills didn't even show up until No. 7 on the list.