Emily and David Gold keep the small bedroom where their daughter Lizzie once lived exactly as she left it. Her favorite flowered dress hangs on the front door as if she were still alive.
This is where the Golds cared for Lizzie — feeding her, lifting her in and out of her bed, and rushing to clear her airways with a suction tube at all hours of the day and night.
Born with a debilitating chromosomal disorder, Lizzie suffered as many as 200 seizures a day and was so fragile that a bad cold could have killed her within hours.
Last November, when Lizzie was 7, the Golds decided they needed help. They requested a coveted form of medical assistance, known as a "waiver," through Hennepin County. The Golds repeatedly stressed the urgency of their daughter's case. Emily Gold recalled sobbing as she checked the box marked "terminal" on their application.
Months passed. The Golds heard nothing.
After about a dozen phone calls, a county social worker finally said in March that someone would contact them to schedule an evaluation at their home in south Minneapolis. More weeks passed. Lizzie's condition worsened.
"We were at the absolute limit of what we could do as parents," Emily Gold said.
One morning in early May, their worst fears were realized. Lizzie was rushed to Children's Hospital in Minneapolis with pneumonia. She died four days later of a collapsed lung.