32 ways to design your home for happiness

Happiness is a loaded word and a subjective — and often elusive — goal. There are more accessible targets: Contentment. Peace. Comfort. Reduced stress. And if there’s one place we all deserve to feel any or all of these things, it’s in our homes. Whether you have a tiny room in a group house, an apartment or a roomy suburban single-family home, your space should be an escape, a balm and a reflection of your true self. We know, though, that things small and large get in the way of those vibes.

We’re here to help. We’ve rounded up some of our best advice on how to make your home more comfortable, more green, more you. If all of that can make you even a little bit happier, it’s worth the effort.

Studies have shown that sleep deprivation can raise your risk of depression and a host of other health problems. So taking a long, hard look at your bedroom is an obvious place to start.

1. Pick a pillow that suits your sleep style. Pillow technology has evolved considerably in recent years. Today’s options can accommodate side sleepers, neck pain, pregnancy and every preference for softness.

2. Pay attention to your environment. Ideally, your room is dark, quiet and cool — think between 65 and 75 degrees.

3. Consider cooling bedding, whether it’s a mattress, pillow or sheets. This can be particularly helpful for “hot” sleepers.

4. Go for a bigger bed. If encroaching kids and pets are cramping your style, a mega mattress might help. You can easily fit a family of four and a dog the size of a small car in the 9-by-9 foot Alaskan king. Just make sure your room can accommodate the size — and weight — before you buy.

5. Conquer your cover wars. With the Scandinavian sleep method, couples share a bed but have separate bedding. That means no more waking up in the middle of the night with no blankets.

6. Or carve out your own space entirely. For more extreme situations (think: snoring or restless sleepers), many couples have turned to separate beds — or even bedrooms — with no regrets.

People love to debate the merits of neutrals vs. bold colors in home designs. Gray, in particular, is constantly getting shade. But we’re calling nonsense on the whole thing. Paint choices are entirely subjective, and in the end, the only thing that matters is that the color makes you happy.

7. Get cozy. For a warm, inviting vibe, try a deep, rich shade.

8. Give your bedroom a soothing makeover, using a hue conducive to rest.

9. Bring the outdoors in. If being in nature is your jam, try a green shade.

10. Go bold. To push the paint color envelope a bit, consider a Technicolor hue.

11. Don’t dismiss white. Although it’s often dismissed as a noncolor, white comes in an endless array of subtly distinctive options, and the right one could be exactly what your room needs to spark joy.

After years of enthusiastic decluttering pegged to the idea that our stuff hinders our happiness and has a negative effect on our mental health, it seems there may be a countermovement afoot. Forget Swedish Death Cleaning. Even Marie Kondo has learned to embrace a bit of chaos. Maybe, as Britt Peterson wrote for us, keeping the stuff you have instead of endlessly buying stuff only to get rid of it and buy more stuff is a better path to true contentment. OK, but what if all of that stuff stresses you out? And the idea of cleaning is completely overwhelming?

12. Retrain yourself. Think you’re so hopelessly disorganized that you can’t possibly get your space in order? Think again. Even the messiest person can learn to be more organized with small changes such as breaking tidying into 15-minute chunks, or taking a “ski slope” approach to the task (zigzagging from one part of a room to another while cleaning).

13. Start small. Brogan Ingram, a TikToker who cleans hoarders’ homes, knows how overwhelming it can be just to get going. Instead of trying to clean an entire room at once, she suggests tackling one tiny corner or surface in one room.

14. Have a friend keep you company while you work. Ingram says that this strategy, known as “body doubling,” can reduce distraction and procrastination, making frustrating tasks a bit less daunting.

15. Adjust your expectations. Instead of going for perfection, set your sights on good enough. As long as you address things that could be a health issue (cutting boards that have been used with raw meat, for example), a little mess isn’t going to hurt anyone.

16. Be kind to yourself. If ADHD or mental health issues stand between you and a more organized home, cut yourself some slack. No one is going to judge you for having some dishes in your sink. And if all else fails, simply close the door on the mess and go about your life until you feel more ready to tackle it.

Having pets around can really boost your happiness quotient — but not if your four-legged friends are miserable. (See: Cats peeing on furniture and dogs chewing through that favorite pair of Louboutins.) If they are giving sad vibes, little routine changes can go a long way toward boosting their mood.

17. Let your cat roam outdoors. Start slowly to ease them into it. And supervise your cat at all times — perhaps by creating a “catio” or using a leash — to avoid putting birds and other wildlife (or your pet) at risk.

18. Find some friends for your dog. Research has shown that companionship, either from humans or other dogs, plays a big part in dogs’ happiness. If your canine pal is misbehaving or seems anxious, it might be time for some playmates.

If a pet feels like a bit too much of a commitment for you houseplants are a lower-maintenance alternative that have also been shown to make people happier at home.

19. Choose the right plant for your skill set. If you’re new to plant parenting, or just short on time, there are plenty of accessible options that even the greenest novice is unlikely to kill. Once you’ve conquered the pothos and snake plants, try a prayer plant or another more challenging variety.

20. Talk to your plants. The jury is out on whether it benefits the plants, but experts say that having a nonjudgmental sounding board very well may help us.

You don’t have to go all in on forest bathing to reap the mental health benefits of time spent outdoors. If you have a yard, no matter how small, here are some little (and big!) things you can do to give it — and yourself — a lift.

21. Create a fuss-free garden. Yes, it’s possible to have a beautiful — but minimalist — outdoor space. Taking a simpler approach also means you will have more time to relax and enjoy the fruits of your (low-lift) labor.

22. Invite wildlife to the party. Even some animals that we typically consider a nuisance (yes, we do mean squirrels) can be fun to watch. Or if you’re not down with the pesky rodents, there are plenty of other two-, four- and six-legged friends you can attract: birds, toads, fireflies and butterflies.

23. Put in an aboveground pool. Go on. You know you want to do it.

Ideally, your home is a place of respite from all of the noise and stress from the outside world. There are plenty of ways to achieve this: tuning out the news, staying off social media or carving out a comfortable place to curl up with a book and a cuppa. Want to take it a step further?

24. Try creating a dedicated space for meditation. It doesn’t have to be an entire room; a corner or closet with a comfortable place to sit and a focal point works just as well.

25. Attack unpleasant smells. To make your nose happier, you can use charcoal bags to absorb odors or open the windows for some fresh air. Or try a candle, diffuser or oils.

26. Explore the spectrum of colorful sound. Everyone knows about white noise, but it turns out there’s a whole spectrum of “colorful” noises for different purposes. Want to fall asleep? Think pink. Or go for green noise if you are looking to relax.

Don’t overlook interior design as part of your strategy. Surrounding yourself with art, books, colors and decorative items that make you feel good (hello, “dopamine decor”) can help you feel happy every time you walk into your home. Once you’ve identified those serotonin-boosting items, here’s how to pull it all together.

27. Create negative space. Intentional blank spaces around art and decorative objects gives your eyes place to rest. It can help focal points shine, add interest and allow your room to breathe.

28. Be mindful of how you hang art. Height, symmetry and balance should all factor into how you arrange pieces on the wall, to achieve a pleasing effect.

29. Include something quirky or even ugly in each room; designers say it can make the space more interesting. Not everything has to be beautiful. So that means the hamburger stool you covet? Totally fair game.

30. Consider rearranging your books. You can sort them alphabetically, by subject or by color — it doesn’t matter. You’re not building the Library of Congress here.

31. Add some luxurious touches. You don’t have to break the bank to do it; there are plenty of ways to fancy up your space without spending a fortune.

32. Don’t skip nice things just because you have kids. Experts say you don’t have to sacrifice quality — or beauty — when your children are young. Find stuff that will stand up to the wear and tear now, and work for the long haul.