On Sanibel Island, I became a woman obsessed.
Forget shelling and beachcombing, shopping and sunset-watching, bicycling and boating, museum-hopping and dining al fresco in the humid Florida night. I did those things, and they were great. But by Day Three, all I really wanted to do was see a big pink bird.
And so I found myself — at sunrise, at sunset, at midday, at low tide — crunching along the gravel road that winds through the nature preserve, eyes peeled for the elusive roseate spoonbill. I am not much of a birder, and I had never been particularly interested in the spoonbill before. But Sanibel is one of the few places where it can reliably be seen, and the more I saw its picture — on postcards and refrigerator magnets, on the cover of my guidebook, crafted out of seashells, silk-screened onto tote bags, embroidered on sun visors — the more I had to see it in the wild. The spoonbill is a stunning bird, heron-sized, with a long bill that widens at the end and with bright plumage that ranges from shell-pink to magenta.
The trouble was, I couldn't find one. "Ah, they're funny birds," a naturalist told me. "You never know with them. There were tons of them here last week. This week, hardly any."
On our first morning, my friend Joey and I carried our coffee cups out to the beach and watched brown pelicans dive-bomb the water while the sun came up. There was no one around. The sultry air was already 65 degrees, and the white sand glittered with thousands — millions — of shells: pink, white, tiger striped. They were so beautiful, it seemed a shame to step on them. Back home in Minnesota, where my husband was heading to work, it was 12 degrees. I dug my toes into the soft, wet sand, let the Gulf of Mexico lap at my ankles, and felt only slightly guilty.
Sanibel Island is all about nature. Lighting is limited at night, to keep the skies dark. Road signs give the right-of-way to gopher tortoises, and other signs warn you to give alligators a wide berth. Tall wooden platforms provide nesting spots for ospreys, which soar through the blue sky all day.
More than half of the island has been set aside as wilderness preserve, with protected tracts scattered throughout neighborhoods, and with one giant refuge — the 6,400-acre J.N. "Ding" Darling National Wildlife Refuge — hugging the northern side. In the preserve, a one-way 4-mile gravel road winds past mud flats, mangrove islands, sandbars and tea-colored ponds dark with brackish water. I saw alligators sleeping in the mud (and gave them wide berth) and big anhingas (cousins to cormorants) drying their Dracula wings in the sun.
Dolphins and egrets