Q Does one always tip a hairdresser? I recently got a haircut from a stylist who works out of her home. She does not employ anyone else. I am wondering if I should tip her as I would someone at a regular salon. Are there guides for tipping?
A Generally, hairdressers and barbers are tipped 10 to 20 percent. Salon owners, however, typically are not. So, by that standard, the home hairdresser would not be tipped. But remember, you decide if there's a tip.
General tipping guidelines from the Emily Post Institute:
• A tip is earned. Reward good service generously and reduce the tip proportionately for indifferent or rude service. A good rule of thumb is 10 percent if the service is mediocre and 8 percent if it's really poor. That way, you help to raise the standard of service. Leaving no tip does not correct the problem of poor service.
• Treat servers with respect. Leaving a generous tip doesn't make up for ordering someone around or treating them dismissively. While tipping augments servers' incomes and rewards them for a job well done, treating them kindly is just as important.
• When in doubt, ask in advance. In a hair salon, ask the receptionist. In some situations, leaving a tip could be seen as demeaning. Taking the time to find out what's expected can spare you an embarrassing moment.
• Tip on the pretax amount of the bill, not on the total.
• Tip discreetly. Tipping is a private matter. Don't act like a "big spender" and flash a lot of bills.
