As our plane circled, making its descent into the Honolulu airport, the woman in the seat next to me asked, "Which of the outer islands are you going on to?"
When I answered that I planned to stay in Honolulu, on Oahu, she looked at me in disbelief and said, "Oh, I never stay there. I just find it too touristy."
Well, everyone has a right to an opinion, and the outer islands are indeed spectacular, but I couldn't help but think that her comment was akin to saying, "Yes, I'm going to France, but I'm skipping Paris because it's too touristy."
Sure, Waikiki Beach is now known more for its high-rise hotels than its sand; a stroll through the upscale shopping district along Kalakaua Avenue might put one in the mind of New York's Fifth Avenue, and the city has become a hot spot for restaurants, thanks to the fusion cuisine of chefs Alan Wong, Roy Yamaguchi and Sam Choy.
But Honolulu is more than the sum of its parts; it is the heart of the island chain, the "Gathering Place," the scene of King Kamehameha's victory over warring chiefs and subsequent uniting of the islands. It is the repository of Hawaii's history, art and culture, and to miss it is, to me, unthinkable.
An ideal place to get an understanding of Hawaii's history and a sense of its vibrant culture is the Bishop Museum. The fourth-largest museum collection in the United States, it contains 1.2 million cultural artifacts.
Founded in 1889, the museum is Hawaii's answer to India's Taj Mahal, a testimony to the power of undying love. From the first time he set eyes on Princess Bernice Pauahi Paki, Charles Reed Bishop knew there would be no one else for him, and although her parents opposed the match (he was a commoner and a haole, or non-Hawaiian), the couple enjoyed 35 years of wedded bliss. After Bernice's death in 1884, her husband set about building a museum to house her personal belongings and to serve as a monument to their love.
Although today's visitors can marvel at an eclectic collection of objects -- elaborate feather fans, plant and animal specimens, and the restoration of a Hale Pili, the only surviving example of an authentic Hawaiian grass hut -- the real centerpiece of the museum will be the restored Hawaiian Hall, slated for completion this year. Listed on the National Register of Historic Places, the hall houses the most sacred treasures of the Hawaiian people.