The first time he saw Cedarhurst, a stately historic house set on 10 acres in Cottage Grove, True Thao thought, "Holy cow! Here's this majestic mansion in the middle of nowhere!"
It was 2001, Cottage Grove was less developed than it is now, and Thao, a social worker with a private practice, and his brother Xoua Thao, a physician, were looking for a commercial property to buy together.
A real estate agent showed them Cedarhurst, which was operating as a wedding venue. The grand white house with its classic columns reminded the brothers of mansions in Rhode Island, where their family first settled as refugees from Laos when they were children.
"We fell in love with it," said True. So the brothers and their wives pooled their resources, bought the mansion, and undertook an extensive renovation. They replaced the roof, then refreshed the entire first floor, updating the electricity, redoing the plaster, repainting, wallpapering and restoring the gold leaf in the ballroom. "We wanted to keep the integrity," said True.
They added a custom bar in the "French Room" and created a dressing room for bridal parties.
The Thaos continued to host weddings at Cedarhurst, with their children and members of their large extended family pitching in, and also began offering luxurious high teas.
In addition to being an event venue, Cedarhurst remained a home. The formal gathering rooms and large commercial kitchen are on the first floor; there's another kitchen — and 11 bedrooms — on the second.
True lived in the mansion from 2001 to 2016, and for several years, he left his practice to be a full-time event planner and caretaker, handling everything from wedding details to mowing the sweeping lawn. "I learned a lot very quickly," he said.