As they dreamed up the best scenario for aging in place, Sonja Batalden and her friends threw around the idea of having houses closer to one another. They could create their version of community living, sharing resources while still maintaining independent living spaces.
“We talked about thinking differently about how we live right now and how we could more easily share meals and the day-to-day pieces of life,” she said.
Batalden and her friend Heidi Ricks decided to make that idea a reality when the house next door to Ricks’ — a two-bedroom, two-bath home built in 1948 with a shared driveway in St. Paul’s Como neighborhood — went up for sale. Batalden, who was living in a north metro suburb at the time, loved the idea of moving to the city. Also ideal: The property had a deep lot so Bataldan could create an urban farm and raise chickens.
“We sat down and had a heart to heart, about having our own lives, but how we can help each other out,” Batalden said. “It all happened really quickly.”
Full house
If Batalden wanted community, she got that in spades. Just as she was moving in, the pandemic hit. The next thing she knew, it was a full house.
“I was planning to live there by myself, and then both my kids needed to come home from college because schools were closing, and they both said, ‘Can I bring my partner?’ And I said, ‘Of course,’” she recalled. “We suddenly had five adults and two dogs and baby chickens, and it’s not that large of a house.”
One of her sons, Isaiah Scharen, and his partner were architecture students. Batalden and the budding designers dreamed up the best ways to use spaces for both community and independent living.
They talked about an accessory dwelling unit (ADU) in the backyard. Batalden liked the concept of someone living independently on the property while living nearby.