Asma Mohammed repressed memories of her sexual assault for years, but sometimes the way a light fell across a room or the whiff of a certain smell would send horrific visions flooding back.
By the time she managed to process the trauma of what happened years later, it was too late. Minnesota's statute of limitations on reporting sexual assault had lapsed and her testimony couldn't be used in court against her perpetrator.
"It took me years to get there, it took me years of therapy and beyond therapy, just having the support of the community," she said.
But starting Wednesday, survivors of sexual violence will be able to report cases in their own time after a fateful meeting between Mohammed and another survivor that prompted a four-year push at the Capitol to change the law. The stories of the two women and others helped get the legislation across the finish line last session as part of a sweeping package of changes to rewrite the state's criminal sexual conduct laws.
"We need to be giving survivors so many more choices of how to navigate the aftermath of being sexually assaulted or sexually abused or raped," said Sarah Super, founder of Break the Silence.
"The statute of limitations, as it existed in Minnesota, took away a really important choice and set an arbitrary timeline that, by the nature of how trauma lives in the brain and the body, really just worked to protect the perpetrators and silence the victims."
'We were told no'
After her ex-boyfriend broke into her apartment and raped her at knife point in 2015, Super launched a GoFundMe effort to create a memorial for survivors. When she realized how much talking about her rape helped herself and others, she started Break the Silence as a Facebook page to share the stories of survivors who used their real names.
Through that work, she crossed paths in 2017 with Mohammed, who was doing advocacy work with Reviving the Islamic Sisterhood for Empowerment. They set a time to meet again for brunch at Longfellow Grill in Minneapolis. As they sat talking about their work and experiences, they realized there was even more they wanted to do.