Hubert Humphrey and Richard Nixon were political adversaries.
Humphrey had narrowly lost the 1968 presidential election to Nixon. Being beaten byNixon, who epitomized so much of what Humphrey had fought against most of his political life, and by so few votes, made the loss even harder to take.
Yet, in January 1978, bedridden and weak at his home in Waverly, Minn., just five days before he died from bladder cancer, Humphrey called Nixon, who had been in seclusion in California following his resignation from the presidency in 1974.
Humphrey's message was direct: "Dick, I'm not going to be around much longer. There is going to be a memorial service for me in the Capitol Rotunda. I want you to attend that service."
Nixon said no, he just couldn't return to Washington. But Humphrey persisted: "You must attend." Nixon finally relented. And he stood with Presidents Jimmy Carter and Gerald Ford and other political luminaries at the memorial service.
Why did Humphrey, in the waning moments of his life, make this extraordinary request of Nixon?
He told his wife, Muriel, "No former president should live in exile from the nation's capital." This was Humphrey's final act as a public figure. Civility, decency and rising above party defined his dreadful last days.
Today, we witness the near-total breakdown of public civility and bipartisan collaboration. The atmosphere is fetid.