The Wilderson family moved into the white stucco house on a Kenwood hill in the early 1960s.
They were the first black homeowners in the wealthy Minneapolis enclave, where historic homes roost on green lawns — and a petition was being circulated to keep them out.
When the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated in 1968, Ida-Lorraine Wilderson sat down and wrote her neighbors an open letter. Her words appeared in mailboxes and in the Minneapolis Tribune, a clear-eyed rebuke as well as a plea to work toward "less racial strife, better racial progress, and true, not token, recognition of the dignity of all men."
Decade by decade, the home of Ida-Lorraine and Frank Wilderson Jr. became a meeting ground for minds interested in civic and social change: corporate executives, activists, teachers, academics. The couple built careers as educators and clinical psychologists, traveling the world to share their expertise but always returning to Kenwood.
It was in that home that Ida-Lorraine Wilderson, a longtime Minneapolis principal and teacher, child development expert and civic leader, died suddenly in bed on Jan. 25. She was 86.
Before retiring in the early 2000s, she worked as a principal at various schools and as a coordinator in the Minneapolis schools' Special Education Department. She also filled her calendar with myriad social and civic roles, from the Minneapolis Urban League and the League of Women Voters to the local chapter of the Links Inc., a nonprofit for professional women of color.
"Whatever they were doing, she was right in the mix of it," said her husband, Frank, 88, an educational psychologist and retired professor at the University of Minnesota, where he served as the school's first black vice president.
Born in New Orleans, Ida-Lorraine Jules made her society entree at an Original Illinois Club debutante ball in 1950. Her husband first spotted her as a teenager, lugging around a violin case for lessons. They later both landed at Xavier University of Louisiana in New Orleans and married in 1955.