A friend passed along a Coca-Cola ad done by a Belgian advertising agency with the tagline "Happiness starts with a smile." The commercial takes place on a cramped subway as people are boarding the train after a long day at work. Everyone is silent and keeping to themselves.
Suddenly, the camera focuses on a hired actor who randomly starts smiling while looking at his tablet, then begins laughing more and more. Everyone on the subway takes notice and starts smiling and laughing.
Smiling is a bonding agent. It builds bridges to other people around us. It keeps us from remaining aloof and separate from one another. It just goes to show you that smiling and laughing are contagious.
I read in Self magazine that 94% of Americans polled said they noticed a person's smile during a first encounter. People were less likely to notice others' bodies or eyes.
There are so many benefits to smiling and laughing. A genuine smile and laugh increase the production of serotonin, the happy hormone, and dopamine — feel-good endorphins that slow cortisol production and diminish feelings of stress, anxiety and depression.
Years ago, I saved an article from USA Today explaining that we learn in childhood "people skills" such as listening, remembering names and smiling. It is amazing how people's moods and words are misjudged because they look too serious. A smile shows that you like yourself, you like your current place in the world and you're happy with the people you are interacting with. You should commit to making others smile every day of the week. The first Friday of October was designated World Smile Day for just that purpose. It was created by commercial artist Harvey Ball, creator of the ubiquitous "smiley face," who believed that all of us should devote one day each year to smiles and kind acts.
Smiling and laughing provide a workout. One smile uses more than 16 muscles. During a bout of laughter, the body increases its oxygen intake, which is just as good as taking a few cleansing breaths. That's why smiling and laughing are my favorite exercises.
Researchers in Germany instructed a group of people to laugh on demand to measure their core muscles. The data showed that laughing enhanced core muscles as much as — and sometimes more than — when those subjects did back lifts or crunches.