NEW YORK – Her college playing career at La Salle over, Cheryl Reeve was a graduate assistant coach at her alma mater in 1988 for coach John Miller.
“I’ll never forget it,” Reeve said Thursday at Barclays Center, hours before her Lynx team would match the biggest comeback in WNBA Finals history in an overtime victory against New York in Game 1.
“He used to kneel down,” the Lynx coach and president of basketball operations said of Miller. “He was there with his hand on his knee. I was kneeling next to him, and I was complaining about something that a player was doing.
“And he said, ‘You know Cheryl, you’ll figure this out in coaching, but right now, your box is about this big about things you accept. You’ll realize that box will have to grow.’ "
Miller was talking primarily about a successful coach being willing to accept players for the people they are as well as their collection of athletic skills. This was a life lesson — one of many Reeve got from Miller — and not just an X’s and O’s session.
But can the two really be separate?
It’s hard. A coach wants to drive players and pull the best out of them. That’s the same. But the way she does it?
Lynx assistant coach Rebekkah Brunson — who won four of her five WNBA title rings playing for Reeve during the team’s wonderous championship run starting in 2011 — will tell you that Reeve has changed.