COPENHAGEN —
The sea never left his side.
Søndergård's career requires constant jetting, including frequent trips to Glasgow, where he leads the Royal Scottish National Orchestra, and now Minneapolis, where in September he'll start as music director of the Minnesota Orchestra. But Søndergård, 53, always returns to his beloved Denmark, a country shaped by the sea that surrounds it.
His life, too, has been defined by its waters.
Søndergård was 10 years old when his father, out with friends in a little boat, drowned.
"It took away my father. So it's a special energy with that," he said, squinting out at the glinting, gray-blue waters encircling the Copenhagen Opera House. "Because when you're 10 years old, you don't really understand how difficult life can be.
"Everything is just exploring. And then. … "
Over the years, Søndergård has transformed his relationship with the water — and with his grief — by focusing on the visceral experience of it. By swimming, by sauna. Music helped, too.