The Rams decided in January 2020 not to renew defensive coordinator Wade Phillips' contract, letting the veteran coach go after three seasons. They replaced Phillips with Brandon Staley, a 37-year-old Vic Fangio disciple who'd made an impression on Rams head coach Sean McVay with a Bears defense that held the eventual NFC champions to six points during a Sunday night victory the previous season.
That same month, McVay also hired an offensive coordinator. Wes Phillips, the Rams tight ends coach and Wade's son, introduced McVay to Kevin O'Connell, the 34-year-old former Washington offensive coordinator who'd made an impression on Phillips during their time together on Jay Gruden's staff.
Two months into O'Connell's and Staley's tenures in Los Angeles, the COVID-19 pandemic shuttered NFL office buildings and sent the two coaches home with their young children: three boys for Staley and his wife, Amy, and two boys and a girl at the time for O'Connell and his wife, Leah.
The two families spent the year together in a COVID bubble, home-schooling their kids in makeshift classrooms while O'Connell and Staley navigated a surreal offseason with no players in team buildings and no preseason games. The resurgent Rams rode the league's top-ranked defense to the NFC divisional playoffs; Staley moved across town a year later to become the Chargers head coach and was blocked from bringing O'Connell with him as his offensive coordinator. O'Connell won a Super Bowl with the Rams the next season.
Their families spent just a year together, but after that one season, O'Connell and Staley each left regarding the other as one of his best friends.
On Sunday, they will coach against each other for the first time in their friendship, both at the head of teams that made the playoffs a year ago and started 0-2 this season. Staley's Chargers have given up late scores in a pair of close losses; O'Connell's Vikings have lost six fumbles this year. The matchup has an urgency for both teams that alters the friendship between their coaches, if only temporarily.
"Brandon is a really close friend of mine, so I do know how competitive he is, and he knows the same thing about me," O'Connell said. "I don't know how much talking we will do with each other this week, but I care about him tremendously. I think he's a great, great football coach and is somebody who I respect as much as anybody in this league."
Staley also brings a defense that should look familiar to the Vikings. It's here where the friendship between the two coaches adds another twist to the matchup.