Alf R. Larson's World War II story was nearly never told. For 55 years, he hid the horrors he experienced during the Bataan Death March and 41 months as a POW.
Finally, after a friend's persistent urging, he broke his silence, sharing his story in the pages of this newspaper, the chapters of a book and the classroom of any kid who invited him to come.
Larson's late-in-life recounting illuminated for many Minnesotans one of World War II's most infamous incidents and spotlighted the sacrifices of his generation. On Jan. 30, Larson, 93, died of congestive heart failure.
"He buried it so deep in his mind," said Rick Peterson, the man who pulled the story from Larson, transcribed their conversations and posted them online. "He told me once, 'Now that I've done it, I feel like a ton of weight has been lifted off my shoulders.' He had a few years of peace.
"And that's why I did it. I did it for him, to thank him for what he did."
Larson was born in Sweden in 1918, grew up in Duluth and lived most of his life in Crystal.
In 1945, not long after he returned home to Duluth from the war, Larson's parents "insisted" that he join them for dinner with two friends and their daughter, Jane. He walked in to find the woman who would become his wife stirring gravy on the stove. Still emaciated from the war, Larson found the combination of the fragrant food and a lovely lady intoxicating, said his daughter, Linda Judge, also of Crystal.
"The joke is, she was only stirring the gravy" that her mother had made, Judge said, laughing. "My mom was not the greatest cook."