The last time Jessica Racer saw her father, Jonathan Chapman, they were at her brother's baseball game. It was Father's Day. Beyond the field stood a school with a rather ugly, windowless brick wall. But Chapman nudged her to look at it — at the way the sun was casting the shadow of a tree. The shadow was perfect, Racer said.
"It's the kind of thing I never would have noticed, but he was always noticing," she said.
Chapman, a respected Twin Cities photographer and mentor, died June 18 by suicide at age 46. He is survived by his wife, Michelle Ramier, children Jessica, Wesley and Frankie, his brothers, Jeff and Daniel, his parents and a grandson.
Chapman's eye for beauty didn't just show up in his work, but in every aspect of his life, his family said. He made easy friends and had a knack for maintaining relationships, even after years apart. He was the rare person who could hold meticulously high standards but still be fun to be around, Ramier said.
"He expected a lot out of people, things people didn't even know they were capable of until they did them," she said. "But somehow he was also super fun."
Always ready with a one-liner, Chapman would practically tell jokes in his sleep. "He'd roll over in the middle of the night and be awake for just a second," Ramier said. "We'd exchange some words. Then in the morning I'd realize that I couldn't believe he came up with whatever he had just said. He was so joyful."
One line that Racer always loved came when she was young and the two were walking down a sidewalk together. Someone had spray-painted "the F word on the sidewalk. Without missing a beat he just said 'Somebody stubbed their toe there,' " she said.
Chapman attended the University of Minnesota, where he learned and fell in love with photography.