I'm willing to bet that the Rev. John M. Bauer's commentary " 'Lover's quarrel' with my church must continue" (Opinion Exchange, Nov. 18) about the Catholic Church could have been written by most Catholics like me today. Like Father Bauer I, too, grew up in the Catholic Church. I also love the prayers, the rituals and the Mass. I have a strong sense of comfort, familiarity and of being home when I'm in a Catholic Church. My heart has been broken, too, by the leadership of the Catholic Church for its failure to stamp out this demonic child abuse that continues to plague it. I refuse to be driven out of the church I love because of failed leadership. I love the Lord and I love being Catholic. I choose to stay and fight for the church I love like Father Bauer.
I'm thinking of the story about the guy at the beach who is throwing starfish that have washed up on the beach back into the water. Someone watching this guy throwing starfish back in the water asks him, "There are so many starfish laying on the beach, how do you know you are making a difference with what you are doing?" The guy throwing the starfish picks up another fish, throws it back into the water says to the man, "It makes a difference to that one." I choose to stay and fight for the church I love as it makes a difference to me.
Bob Doyle, Savage
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As a member of the Basilica of St. Mary's diverse parish family, I want to shout out an amen to the words of our pastor, John Bauer.
Worshiping and volunteering at the Basilica, I am constantly humbled and inspired by the generous goodness of our faith community. They reinforce the challenging understanding brought home to us during Vatican II: The hierarchy is not the church. We are the church. It is up to us to keep calling it to task, to broaden its perspective by the equal inclusion of women and by being open to new insights constantly being offered by experts in matters both secular and religious.
For some of us, it's not "love me or leave me," it's love me and help us become the best we can be as a church.
Mary Ritten, Minneapolis
POLITICIANS AND COVID
A few have seen the light. Maybe.
I would never wish a COVID diagnosis on anyone, ever. I find it disturbing that Nick Zerwas, a former state legislator from Elk River, came forward and has declared that now is the time to be serious about our response to the virus ("New curbs on bars, gyms, dining out," front page, Nov. 18). He states that he was against mitigation efforts earlier this year. Now, I understand the purpose of his latest declaration as an effort by Gov. Tim Walz's administration to get more people who have not been complying with social distancing and mask-wearing to do so when one of their own has changed his mind. But I am deeply disturbed that it's only his own diagnosis and suffering that have changed his mind. Perhaps if he and oh-so-many others had supported mitigation efforts earlier, we wouldn't be in this situation now.
Here's a message to Zerwas' loyal supporters and those who oppose further rules: If the new restrictions are going to massively change the way you've been living your social life lately, it's quite likely you're the reason we're going to get more restrictions. Please be safe, everyone!
Laurie Tralle, Lino Lakes
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Regarding "Gazelka says virus lessons learned" (Nov. 18): Is this the same Sen. Paul Gazelka who repeatedly complains about COVID-19 restrictions? The same Gazelka who objects to public-health-based decisions made by Walz? The same Gazelka who knows individuals will take personal responsibility and make good decisions about their own health and the health of the people around them?