Stephanie's 2 ½-year relationship was ending, so she ignored her boyfriend one night in early January, even as he called and texted her more than 20 times.
She woke up the next morning and logged on to Snapchat. What she saw left her paralyzed.
During the night, he posted on the messaging app nearly two dozen videos and images of them having sex earlier in their relationship. By the time she found out, her boyfriend's daughter had already seen the videos, and by the end of the day, so had Stephanie's friends, family members and even neighbors.
Stephanie went to the Becker Police Department, but they said there was little they could do to help. Technically, what he did wasn't even illegal.
"I broke down in the police station and cried for an hour," she said in her Becker home, tears welling up in her eyes again. "I thought, wow, I'm helpless right now."
Her dilemma, one of a growing number of cases sometimes classified as "revenge porn," is likely to get the attention of state lawmakers this year in the wake of recent court challenges in Minnesota and other states.
In December, the Minnesota Court of Appeals struck down the state's revenge porn law, which made it a crime to publish, sell or disseminate private explicit images and videos without the person's consent. Without it in place, police told Stephanie her only option was to get an emergency harassment restraining order and hope it would make him stop. The Sherburne County Attorney's Office confirmed Stephanie's case but couldn't comment on it because it's still open.
The Star Tribune is not publishing her full name because of the sensitivities involved and the potential for further retaliation.