Stacey Stratton, who has run her own staffing agency for 15 years, became a working-class entrepreneur at age 10.
That's when her father, a truck driver, left his wife and three daughters in Clear Lake, Wis., in 1987.
"'How can you leave my mom and us?'" Stratton recalled thinking. "I went everywhere with him, including to the dump to salvage parts. We watched WWE on TV together."
Stratton learned early about work and frugality. Dennis Stratton fled to California. He returned to Wisconsin eventually, to live elsewhere, never paying child support. He died in 1996 of injuries sustained in a bar fight, according to Stratton and news accounts.
"We went from being middle class to nothing," Stratton recalled. "When I was a teenager, if I wanted to buy hair spray or a pair of jeans, I had to buy it myself."
Her late mother, Cheryl, a homemaker, took a night job as a cook and opened an in-home day care to hang onto the old house. After Lisa, nine years younger than Stacey, started school, Cheryl took an entry-level job at Bremer Bank in nearby Deer Park.
During her high school summers, Stacey brought Lisa to her lifeguard job.
"Mom struggled to save the house," Stratton recalled. "She told me, 'Don't let this happen to you. Don't be dependent.' She was a rock. She also was the victim."