On a high summer afternoon we were swimming at a state campground beach. A family of campers, a couple with a young son — perhaps 5 or 6 years old — splashed in the shallows, laughing and chattering, apparently enjoying themselves on a sweet afternoon. But my spouse overheard the following exchange between mother and son:
Boy: "I want to go home and be on the internet."
Mom: "We can't do that out here."
Boy: "I know. That's why I want to go home, to play games and watch a movie."
Mom, teasingly: "What would you do if you couldn't ever be on the internet again?"
Boy: "I'd go underwater and hold my breath until I died!"
As an aging boomer, whose household didn't own a temperamental black-and-white cathode ray tube television until I was that boy's age, I'm careful what I make of his comments. First, of course, he's a child and likely doesn't fully comprehend the nature and implications of death and suicide. Words spill out easily (though it would be reckless to discount them). Second, given the same tech he has, I might also have preferred cyberspace to the beach.
But the point is, I don't. That's not to imply the internet and technological infrastructure driving it doesn't have value — certainly it does. Nevertheless, I was disturbed by the conversation and suspect that many of my peers would also find it cringeworthy. Was it about values or merely taste? Worldview or fashionable entertainment? Childhood toys or tidal wave of the future? I thought about the rollicking, uber-gamer novel "Ready Player One." The scraps tossed to conventional reality seemed forced and obligatory — like, we'd rather live in cyberspace, but I suppose flesh-and-blood must be served. At least for now. I do believe that ultimately we only truly value what we cherish, and only protect what we value. I value the beach, the lake and the old white pines on the shore. What do that boy and his generation value? Now, and as adults? They are the inheritors of what current society bequeaths them, and our primary gift has been information technology in all its glory and squalor.