Mark Cady used to be like many drivers. He didn't think much at all about being on his phone while behind the wheel. He's a contractor. Calls and texts came in incessantly, and his phone-based GPS was constantly in use.
Now he doesn't, and he has a tough message for anybody who thinks it's OK. "Put down the phone. You are killing us," he said.
Cady's stance changed abruptly last summer after he nearly "wiped out" a pedestrian. Then came the life-changing moment of July 11 when Hugh Skanes-Cady, his husband and partner of 29 years, was killed in a crash.
Skanes-Cady was returning to his job at NorthstarMLS, where he was the rules and regulations administrator for the information service used by real estate agents. He was on his motorcycle in a construction zone on Hwy. 280 at Energy Park Drive when another motorist hit him from behind. The State Patrol is still investigating the midafternoon crash. Cady says a witness told him that the driver was going fast, had his head down and didn't look up until he hit Skanes-Cady. The witness said Skanes-Cady bounced off the driver's windshield.
"Talking, texting, I don't know, but he was not paying attention," said Cady. Skanes-Cady was taken to Hennepin County Medical Center and died 12 days later.
At any given moment in America, more than 660,000 motorists are using cellphones or manipulating electronic devices, according to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA). Until July 11, Cady was one of them.
"I was too tied up in my electronics to be a full and careful driver," he said. "I made an effort to drive without my phone, and let me tell you, it's really hard to do. It took a lot of effort, but I've been diligent ever since to leave the phone alone."
April is Distracted Driving Awareness month, a 30-day period when you'll see all kinds of radio, TV, billboard and social media campaigns urging drivers to put down their phones and electronic devices and pay attention to the task of driving. And for good reason.