It's pure serendipity, the two of us being in our late 70s together. Neither of us ever planned on being old. Oh, there was the undeniable march of the calendar. But that was always something to be ignored. We didn't have time to think about aging, we had ducks to hunt.
Planned or not, here we are, both on the cusp of 80, both with beards long ago gone gray. He's got some arthritis in a leg that causes him to limp when there is rain in the forecast. Time to pay the piper for those youthful retrieves in icy November water. I've got a growing list of health issues that often come with the septuagenarian territory. What is — is.
Doc the black Labrador and I joined forces in 2008, when I plucked him and his wagging tail from a litter of eight in a local breeder's barn. If the old saw about being allowed one great dog in your life is true, Doc is mine. He could do it all afield. In addition to his remarkable retrieving skills, he had a passion for the sport of duck hunting to match mine. That is the indelible bond we carry forward into retirement.
Mornings these days stand in stark contrast to our duck camp. There the alarm jangled in the dark of night signaling the start of a frenetic race to beat dawn to the boat and blind. Toast-gulping, gear-grabbing, Thermos-filling chaos, all with an amped-up 80-pound retriever straining to go, go, go. In retirement, we're normally up at the crack of 8 o'clock, tending a more gentlemanly pace in our morning routine. Doc often chomps a Milk-Bone after he pads around his outdoor domain sniffing out the telltale scents of night-critter interlopers. I may linger over a third cup of coffee with the morning paper.
Let's be honest here. Neither Doc nor I has a plate piled high with mandatory activities. One another's company is enough to fill the day. As a companion, he is always grinning, tail-thumping happy. Always. There's a lesson there. I find his joy contagious.
My wife was raised in a home without pets. She was always a little nervous around big dogs.
Until Doc. He has a habit of nudging her hand with his nose until he's certain she loves him too.
The only time I have to raise my voice with Doc is to curb his insistence on introducing himself to every new person he sees. A certain FedEx driver pops out of his truck on our place armed with a pocketful of treats to distract dogs on his appointed rounds. Doc runs right past the dropped treat. He's far more interested in greeting the driver.