When it comes time for young birds to leave the nest, they and their parents may not be on the same page. As a matter of fact, they may even be at cross purposes.
Most youngsters are reluctant to leave the comfort and safety of the only home they've ever known, at least until they've achieved the ability to fly.
But most parent birds want their brood to hop out of the nest and disperse as soon as possible, to avoid the very real possibility that a predator will wipe out the young birds.
They have different goals at this point: Each young bird is thinking of its own comfort and safety, while parent birds are looking to maximize the chances that at least one of their offspring will survive to carry on their genes. Individual survival vs. species survival, it's an evolutionary dilemma.
Parent birds don't literally kick their youngsters out of the nest, of course. But they will try to entice them to leave, using tactics like perching on a branch nearby with a tasty insect as the bait.
Dangerous time
This juvenile stage is a dangerous time for young birds, either way. It's a reality of the natural world that there's very little room for error as youngsters begin to transfer from dependence on their parents to learning to survive on their own.
Birds that leave the nest at around 10 to 14 days of age don't yet have full flight ability, instead fluttering around and crash landing for several weeks until their wings grow longer and stronger. They're vulnerable to cats, crows, hawks or other predators — and predators are always watching.