One of the hardest things to get my head around this Thanksgiving is how we, along with millions of other Americans, seem to have only gotten richer in a terrible year.
Led by the booming Nasdaq, the stock market is up strongly for the year. That's even though it's been a century since the world has experienced a deadly infectious disease pandemic like the coronavirus, disrupting daily life and now claiming the lives of dozens of Minnesotans a day as our state's world-class health care system sags under the weight of serious COVID-19 cases.
Housing values have increased, too, even though it has been half a century since our country has seen anything like the eruption of righteous anger in the streets that followed the killing in May of George Floyd in Minneapolis.
Even used cars have jumped in value.
One of the 2020 observations that flew by on a podcast one day this fall is how when the hard year has you feeling down, being reminded that many others have it much worse rarely makes you feel any better.
Here's an important corollary — to remind yourself that you once had it worse doesn't help much, either.
It's important not to rewrite personal history into a bootstrap story, but I was once much worse off financially. We were mostly just young, starting out as adults with so much college and graduate school debt that for years we had no net worth.
That we are well off now might be explained as spending less than we made and then letting the miracle of compounding returns on our savings work as a lot of years went by. It takes just a little wisdom, though, to realize that there was a whole lot of good luck involved, too.