The first thing to know about "Lost & Found: Storytelling, Ritual and Remembrance" is that it happens on an island.
"Islands are magical. They're between things, and the best rituals happen in in-between spaces," said co-director Leah Cooper, who created the piece to take place in nature, outside the formal confines of a proscenium. "We'll invite [audiences] to cross a threshold and leave behind their fear and disbelief in magic."
Added Megan Kim, who's performing in the Wonderlust Productions show: "On Raspberry Island, you'll be entering what we call a liminal space, where the next couple hours are just for us. It adds to the idea that we all will be living in this moment."
Built around "ambiguous loss" — that which comes as a result of something other than death and that resists closure — the world premiere will change significantly from night to night. Audiences will join the company on the island near downtown St. Paul, where they'll split into groups. Guides will lead them among four storytellers, who will share personal accounts of loss.
Cooper, Kim (a guide) and Antonio Duke (a storyteller) are united by one form of ambiguous loss: They are adopted.
"I recently met some biological family members for the first time," said Duke. "My story is about my brother Cordell, who I haven't met. I saw a picture at my biological mom's house, which is adorned with pictures of family members, and wrote a three-minute piece about me and him having a conversation."
"Ambiguous loss" — pioneered by Twin Cities therapist Pauline Boss — will be new for many theatergoers. It was new to most of the company, including Kim. When Cooper shared the phrase, she said her reaction immediately went from "I don't know what this is" to "Oh, crap. I have ambiguous loss."
The show has been in development for years, and was tested with a Zoom show called "Contract Tracing" during the pandemic, but Cooper had doubts about whether the concept would connect to people. Now that we've all lived and lost through 30 months of a pandemic, she's confident it will.