Q: I'm enjoying seeing a male and female cardinal at my feeders and sitting in a nearby tree together. Are they a couple?
A: Cardinal pairs don't separate after nesting season, as many songbirds do. Instead, they typically remain together all year long, like the pair you've been observing. As spring approaches, you may see signs of courtship, such as the male offering a seed to the female. But if one of them should die, the surviving bird will find another mate.
Bird scouts?
Q: Looking out at a crowd of birds at my feeders, I'm wondering how the birds that aren't regulars find the feeders their first time. Do they scout out an area for feeders before they alight?
A: That's a good question, and you're halfway to the answer. Birds probably don't look for bird feeders, since these aren't part of their natural landscape. What they do look for is other birds actively feeding, a sure sign that food is available. One example: Goldfinches aren't strictly migratory, but the finches you see in summer may have been replaced in the late fall by birds from farther north. They may not know that a long, thin plastic tube holds a feast of nyger seeds, but seeing other goldfinches stacked up at feeder ports is a good clue. It's the same with dark-eyed juncos, who come down from farther north to spend the winter. If they see sparrows and other juncos snapping up food on the ground, they'll likely drop down to check it out.
Is corn bad?
Q: Most suet cakes seem to have corn as a major ingredient, and downy woodpeckers often drop some to the ground as they peck away. Can this be harmful to birds that feed on the ground?
A: You're right, many suet cakes contain corn, probably because it's an inexpensive filler. I see it listed on the suet cakes I buy, after peanuts and oats. Corn isn't harmful to birds, but it isn't very high in nutrition. I've seen cardinals and other ground feeders seeking out cracked corn, but then they add in safflower and sunflower seeds at feeders for a well-rounded meal.