Stick to sports, they say, and then the real world invades and even the world of sports offers no refuge.
It would be nice to think that sports spur change but more often they splash societal ills across our flatscreens.
Sunday night, LeBron James will play in Game 2 of the NBA Finals. He is one of the greatest players of all time, is attempting to win a second straight NBA title, and has conducted himself as a gentleman and a philanthropist.
In the new America of emboldened racism, this is not enough to keep a subhuman from spray-painting a racial epithet onto James' house in Los Angeles.
If this were a rare incident, it would be enough to disturb right-minded Americans. But it is not isolated. Stick to sports? You can't turn on a television without observing how far race relations have to go in our country, or how far they have regressed.
P.K. Subban is a standout defenseman for the Nashville Predators. He is playing in the Stanley Cup Final. It wasn't long ago, when he played for Montreal, that Boston fans used his name in conjunction with the same word that was painted on James' house 17,000 times on social media in one day.
Colin Kaepernick, a former Super Bowl starting quarterback who is 29 and threw 16 touchdown passes and four interceptions last year, is out of work. He is better than some starting QBs and most backups in the NFL but he took a knee during the national anthem last year to protest unarmed black men being shot on American streets and is now deemed unemployable by a league that drafted Joe Mixon and handsomely paid Greg Hardy.
My father was a serviceman. He fought on behalf of American ideals, like the First Amendment. He believed that the flag doesn't celebrate our war heroes; it celebrates that for which they fought. Yet by exercising his right to peacefully protest, Kaepernick became a bull's-eye for hate.