On October 13, 2011, at 12:30 p.m., a friend of mine died needlessly and senselessly.
He and another co-worker, both in their 40s, both married with two children, were performing routine electrical work while standing off the shoulder of I-35W just north of County Road 42 in Burnsville. They were positioned over a hand hole off the side of the road, trying to diagnose a cable problem for a Minnesota Department of Transportation construction project, when a 22-year-old from Missouri going 70 miles per hour lost control of his vehicle, crossed three lanes of traffic and struck both of them, like a bowling ball separating two pins, tossing them in separate directions to rest on the nearby hillside.
My friend Craig died instantly. The other worker, whom I did not know, died a few hours later at the hospital. A third worker was lucky enough to have walked to the truck to retrieve a tool just before his co-workers were hit. He turned around at the exact wrong moment to bear eternal witness to what happened to his friends and teammates.
While I did not witness what unfolded in the field that day, I have heard the accounts and have seen video from traffic cameras stationed nearby. As someone who has worked for almost 30 years in the Minnesota transportation industry, I can honestly say that hearing and seeing what happened because of a short span of inattentive driving has changed my life.
Where before I considered myself invincible while working on similar road projects, or expertly driving around a road crew, I now understand that I am not special. I am no different than any other driver, including a 22-year-old from Missouri who thought he could look for the cruise control button on his steering column while driving 70 miles per hour in the left lane on a freeway. His decision to take his eyes off the road for a moment, if that was what he was really doing, cost my friends their lives.
Not only their lives were affected. Consider their two widows, both working hard some 15 months later to be both mother and the father to their kids; the extended families of both men; the local employer, who lost two talented and cherished employees and has grieved alongside the families while providing ongoing support and consideration to them, and those of us who were lucky to have known and benefited from working alongside Craig Carlson and Ron Rajkowski. We are better people and better transportation professionals to have had these two thoughtful and dedicated men in our professional and personal lives.
Last week I watched as the two widows told a Dakota County prosecutor and judge that they wanted to make sure the young man who stood before them served his sentence for reckless driving in a manner that would make him more aware of the danger of distracted driving. After 15 months of grieving and trying to move beyond the shock and anger, both widows had thought long and hard about what they wanted for closure. They asked the judge to sentence the driver to 30 days in jail rather than 90 days, so that he could continue to work each day and earn a living for himself as a productive citizen. And rather than requiring restitution from him, which would have been a significant challenge over many years, they asked the judge to instead sentence the young driver to 200 hours of community service, of a particular kind.
Their request was simple and stunning -- roadside maintenance work, so he would understand what it feels like to see and hear vehicles traveling close by at high speeds while he picks up road debris. His other option would be to do volunteer work with autistic children, a condition shared by two of the four now fatherless children of the victims.