Friday was not the typical last day of school at Minneapolis' South High School. It was the most dreaded day for this tight-knit school community since their beloved principal Ray Aponte announced his retirement earlier this year.
Aponte, 57, was leaving after five years as the school's principal and 25 years as a principal in the Minneapolis Public Schools — making him the longest-serving principal in the district.
Sporting a white T-shirt with the words "South High Pride" on it and blue jeans with a walkie-talkie tucked on his belt, he walked the hallways one last time. His young admirers often stopped him and begged to take one last picture together. As he bounced from one corner of the building to the other, he showered students with uplifting messages and reminded them to have fun but do well in school.
"It's about the kids for me," he said. "I know the stories behind their faces. When they shine, I shine."
South High students say their next principal must have Aponte's friendly demeanor and ability to connect with them. But Aponte, a district employee for 33 years, said a good principal has to have grit and the ability to set the right tone. Students, he said, feel their best when they are learning something.
"It's been so much fun," he said reminiscing about his time at the school and his students. "They are my story."
Aponte came to the United States from Puerto Rico when he was 8 years old, speaking not a word of English. He grew up in the middle of a farm town in Wisconsin and came to Minnesota after graduating from college. He has been an elementary and middle school principal and assistant principal since the late 1980s, and along the way he has earned respect and recognition from the Minneapolis school community.
He took the helm at South High during a tumultuous time. Constant fights at the school left a rift between American Indian, Somali-American and black students. Many students skipped school, and administrators didn't know how to restore normalcy and peace. At the time, Aponte's daughter was going to the school, and another one of his children had graduated from South. Aponte filled the long-vacant principal post to keep the South community from breaking apart, he said.